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Change is hard, navigating it well is possible
Major life transitions, whether chosen or unchosen, can shake our sense of identity, purpose, and stability. Becoming a parent, changing careers, moving country, ending a relationship, retiring, or losing your health can all trigger a profound reassessment of who you are and what your life means. Therapy provides invaluable support during these disorienting periods.
General information, not medical advice
This page is for general information and does not diagnose, treat, or replace advice from a GP or other qualified health professional. If symptoms are new, severe, worsening, or you are worried about your safety, seek appropriate medical or urgent support.
Signs and symptoms
You might be experiencing life transitions if you recognise any of the following:
- Anxiety or depression triggered by a major life change
- Loss of identity, 'who am I now?'
- Difficulty making decisions during the transition
- Grief for the life, role, or self you're leaving behind
- Relationship strain as you navigate change
- Loss of purpose or meaning in the new chapter
- Feeling stuck, unable to fully leave the past or embrace the future
What causes life transitions?
Life Transitions is rarely caused by a single factor. Common contributing factors include:
- Planned transitions: marriage, parenthood, career change, relocation, retirement
- Unplanned transitions: job loss, divorce, illness, bereavement
- Developmental transitions: adolescence, midlife, ageing
- Identity disruption when a defining role changes or ends
How therapy can help
Talking therapy gives you a structured space to think out loud about a period of change while you're still in the middle of it, to grieve what you're leaving behind, clarify your values and identity, and explore new possibilities with someone who isn't personally affected by which way you decide to go.
Therapeutic approaches we use
Narrative Therapy
Explores how your life story is being rewritten through transition, helping you become the author of a new, coherent life narrative.
Existential Therapy
Particularly valuable during transitions that raise questions of meaning, purpose, and identity, helping you examine your values and what matters most.
Person-Centred Therapy
Provides a warm, exploratory space to process the emotional experience of change without pressure or agenda.
CBT
Addresses anxiety, rumination, and unhelpful beliefs about the transition that are making it harder to move forward.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need a mental health diagnosis to access therapy during a life transition?
No. You don't need to be unwell to benefit from therapy. Therapy is valuable for anyone navigating significant life change, even if they'd describe themselves as functioning fine.
Can therapy help me decide what to do next?
Therapy isn't directive coaching, but it helps you access greater clarity about your values, desires, and fears, which makes decision-making easier.
What if the transition was positive, like a promotion or getting married?
Even positive transitions bring anxiety, adjustment, and loss of the familiar. Therapy is just as valuable for navigating wanted change as unwanted change.
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